We Don’t Live Here Anymore (2004)

Directed by: John Curran | 101 minutes | drama | Actors: Laura Dern, Naomi Watts, Mark Ruffalo, Peter Krause, Sam Charles, Haili Page, Jennifer Bishop, Jennifer Mawhinney, Amber Rothwell, Meg Roe, Jim Francis, Marc Baur, Partrick Earley

The information is certainly not original. Put two worn out couples together, carefully let some erotic sparks fly and don’t forget to add a few innocent children who will be the victims of all this. A classic relationship drama will be the classic result. ‘We Don’t Live Here Anymore’ follows this recipe closely, except that in this case the first couple still has enough love to generate mutual hatred, while the second couple is so non-communicative that even during the act of love there is no eye contact exists. There is no doubt that the cross-adultery will eventually cause considerable damage. But are we actually interested in that?

Although the plot is not very original, a talented filmmaker should be able to make something nice out of it. Unfortunately, director John Curran only partially succeeded in this. The biggest objection of ‘We Don’t Live Here Anymore’ is the dialogues. Although there is enough chatter, the dialogues lack the sharpness you would expect from a drama set in an academic environment. The altercations regularly get no further than the eruption of hollow clichés and then it becomes difficult to suppress a yawn.

Another objection is the flawed character drawing. The characters remain undeveloped sketches and that makes identification difficult. Thus the drama never becomes palpable, no matter how much there is talk, name-calling, crying and making love. The fact that there is also very little development in the story does not make things more exciting.

Against these negatives is the great acting of the quartet of protagonists, especially the ladies Watts and Dern are in a class of their own. The photography, the intelligent editing and supporting music are also well taken care of, while the slow tempo seems to go well with the many emotional outbursts. It’s not enough to save the film, but it does make sure that watching it isn’t a punishment either.

‘We Don’t Live Here Anymore’ could be placed as a drama somewhere between ‘Closer’ (2004) and ‘The Ice Storm’ (1997) but without the sharp dialogues of the former and the thoughtful character drawings and compelling plot development of the latter. . The film also has in common with ‘Closer’ that it is not recommended for couples in love. For couples on the brink of divorce, ‘We Don’t Live Here Anymore’ might just be the decisive push. Whether that is a warning or a recommendation is up to everyone to decide for themselves.